First dates are always tricky. You are always
in two minds what to do and what not to. You want to look both interesting and
interested but definitely not needy. Giving her a small gift can be a nice way
to convey her just that apart from letting her know how thoughtful and
chivalrous you are. But while gifting her something sweet speaks to be a nice
gesture it is also quite difficult to put your finger on what exactly can you
gift her on the very first date.
1.A single long-stemmed rose
But make sure it is a formal date otherwise
you will come on way too strong with it since it’s a universal symbol of
love.
2.Or better find out what are her favourite flowers
and gift her a bunch of those. Maybe orchids or lilies?
3.If you can’t find that out from her FB
account, greet her with the flowers of her favourite colour; perhaps
yellow sunflowers? You can always order these flowers online from an online
florist like Florist Xpress.
3.Or if you are still confused take along with you a
small box of chocolates
Though cliched,
these are time tested and have become synonymous to a gentlemanly gesture.
4.If you saw she has pics with her teddy bears, make
a venture into a small stuffed toy and see her giggle with delight.
But mind you,
don’t assume all the girls like stuffed toys.
5.Go for something more unconventional and gift
her a simple silk scarf if you think she is more sophisticated.
6.Or a small trinket if she likes jewellery.
But keep in mind
to not get her anything too expensive or else you will seem too desperate
and/or showy.
7.Even in jewellery, see if she likes more
traditional or the funky kind of stuff and gift accordingly.
8.If you know her to have a certain hobby, gift her
something to help her with that. Like for example if she paints, try a box of
charcoal or a pot of paint.
9.If she likes to read, you can never go wrong with
a nice book. She’ll only be too happy to receive an another Bible.
10.Rake your brain for some clues from the times
you’ve had a conversation with her and gift accordingly. Like if she told you
she got a new vehicle gift a nice key chain for it.
It will only show
how attentive you were when she was talking about herself.
11.Or be more adventurous and gift her something
totally different like a bouquet of candies or a small plant if she loves
nature or anything that you think she may like.
In the end it all comes down to how much you know her,
what have you two shared and how much you ‘listened’. The key is to be creative
and think out of the box. You need to let her know you are a nice and
thoughtful guy but without being too overpowering or looking too desperate.
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